I am sure in time if he learned magery, he would learn the ways of the Jedi in choosing meditation.
PVE is versus everything...which I dig. That is UO to me.
This is a debate on which skill to suppliment magery...so I just chose the meditation side. Nothing personal.
But if wrestling is only involved to recall then magery should also be just enough to recall. When you start thinking about using magery for other things you start becoming a mana junkie.
If you wanted more out of magery, then meditation is the better choice. If you just want a g-heal and a recall when things get desperate then go with wrestling. Whichever is more fun for you is the Best choice.
Just with meditation you'd want at least 50 intelligence...so you can cast 7th circle even when you are feebleminded.